Rick Trip to California-Help Grandma

I went down to California early in September to help my mom out. My brothers and I have been trying to get down there to support her now that my dad has gotten so bad. David really helped in April by helping Mom recognize the need to get Dad in a place where he could be cared for properly. John was able to do a bunch of work for her in July. David then went in August and got Mom set up with place for Dad, helped her get her financial stuff in order. Mom also has a family from Church (a home teacher) who has cleaned, moved, organized so much that I didn't have any chores to do when I was there. However, I was able help with Dad when he went to a psych appointment and get an I.D. at the DMV. We had to take him out of the nursing home. The first appointment was fine, but when we got to the DMV he was "over it" and his cooperation disappeared. I did get to visit him several times at the nursing home. It was very hard to see the man who helped raise me looking fine, but having no clue as to who I am or where he is or even most of the time who Mom is. He seems to be doing well in the "home".

Mom is trying to get use to living alone and she has really appreciated the visits. She is planning on selling the house and move to a retirement community called Leisure World. On the up side she will be able to travel and see us as well as David and John's families.

I guess my trip was just moral support. Mom and I ate out, watched the Angels go from 2 games up on Seattle to 8 as most of the games were on TV. I got to see my Aunt Susan and her husband Bill. Mom's neighbors are very nurturing and keep a great eye on her. It was a very eye-opening visit. My brothers and I are calling Mom several times a week to check on her. Any extra prayers you have she would appreciate.